Patricia Ann Stafford was born March 21, 1936 in Wellington, Kansas and was adopted by Flossie and Howard Barker. In 1955, Pat was married to Norman Stafford. She was preceded in death by a daughter, Linda Lee, and her parents. She is survived by her loving husband of more than fifty-six years, Norm; a daughter and son-in-law, Becky and Randy Benton of OKC; and a son, Andy of OKC. She is also survived by her four beloved grandchildren, Drew and Shane Benton, and Hannah and Hayden Stafford, as well as many friends and family members. Through the years, Pat found pleasure in her antique and card groups. She was a charter member of the Treasured Antique Study Club and a longtime member of Geophysical Auxiliary. Pat often expressed her appreciation for her loving friends and family. Memorial services will be Saturday, November 26, 1:00pm at Mercer-Adams Chapel.