Gene Charles Hayes, 87, affectionately known as "Big Daddy," departed this life peacefully at home with his family by his side on Veterans Day, November 11, 2019. He was born January 29, 1932 in Oklahoma City to Charles and Sophie (Cornwell) Hayes, the first child of three. His first job at age 15 was as a paperboy, earning $400.00. A veteran of the United States Navy, Gene became a letter carrier in 1957 and had over 60 years of service as a lifetime member. Gene was happily married to the love of his life, Doris, for 48 years before her passing in 2013. After her death, he would always kiss her picture before leaving for morning coffee at Jimmys Egg. Gene loved God and everyone he met. He had a generous heart toward those in need and used every opportunity to reach out and help. He was a lover of animals, especially pelicans. He had a passion for fishing and enjoyed bowling in leagues in his earlier years. Gene was exceptionally close to his family and they shared a special bond. His final wish of never leaving his home was fulfilled by the loving care of his family. In addition to his wife, Doris, Gene was preceded in death by his parents and brother, Robert. Survivors include daughter, Thelma Smith and husband Mark; granddaughter, Melanie Hernandez and companion Alexander Gasiewicz; grandson, Jeffrey Hernandez and wife Melinda; 2 great-grandchildren, Raven and Harmony; sister, Sandy Hughes and family; and numerous other family and friends. The family would like to thank all the individuals for their prayers and support through Genes battle with Parkinsons. Viewing will be Thursday, 9am-9pm at Mercer-Adams. Services to honor his life will be Friday, November 15, 11:00am at Mercer-Adams Chapel. Funeral Service Mercer-Adams Chapel Friday, November 15, 2019 11:00 AM 3925 N. Asbury Bethany, OK 73008