Connie Lou Besette Gilder, 66, died September 12, 2013. She was born February 8, 1947 in Atchison, KS to Donald and Betty (Perkins) Besette. She was a nurse and loved gospel music, arts and crafts. She is survived by Kristen Kirkhuff and her family and Brittany Voth and her family, including 6 grandchildren. Memorial service will be Friday, September 27, 1:00pm at Church on the Rock, 1780 W. Memorial Rd., OKC Memorial Service Friday, September 27, 2013 01:00 PM Church on the Rock 1780 W. Memorial Road Oklahoma City, OK